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Good manners are at the heart of Islam. The Prophet ﷺ said that he was sent to perfect good character, and that the best of people are those with the best manners. Teaching children Islamic manners (adab) shapes how they treat their parents, siblings, friends and everyone around them. Here are 15 daily Islamic manners for kids, with simple ways to teach them.
Why adab matters
Adab turns knowledge into action. A child who knows that Allah loves kindness, and sees it practised at home, grows into a respectful and caring person. Manners also make worship more beautiful: greeting with salam, eating with gratitude and speaking gently are all rewarded.
15 daily Islamic manners to teach your child
Manners with Allah
- Saying Bismillah before eating, drinking and starting any task.
- Saying Alhamdulillah after eating, after sneezing and when something good happens.
- Making dua when waking up, before sleeping and when entering or leaving the home.
Manners with parents and family
- Obeying and helping parents with a smile.
- Speaking gently and never raising the voice at parents.
- Asking permission before entering a room.
- Being kind to siblings and sharing.
Manners with others
- Greeting with “As-salamu alaykum” and replying to greetings.
- Telling the truth, even when it is hard.
- Keeping promises.
- Respecting elders and being gentle with younger children.
- Saying thank you (“Jazak Allahu khayran”) and saying sorry.
Personal manners
- Eating with the right hand and from what is in front of you.
- Keeping clean: washing hands, brushing teeth and tidy clothes.
- Being kind to animals and caring for the environment.
How to teach Islamic manners at home
- Be the example: children copy what they see far more than what they hear.
- One manner a week: focus on a single habit and practise it together.
- Use the Prophet’s example: share a short story from the Seerah for each manner.
- Praise good behaviour: notice and celebrate when your child gets it right.
- A manners chart: younger children enjoy ticking off good deeds each day.
- Correct gently: the Prophet ﷺ corrected children with kindness, never harshness.
Learning adab with a teacher
In our kids program, Islamic manners are taught in live one-to-one classes through stories, short hadith and real-life examples, as part of our Islamic studies programs. Teachers link each manner to the life of the Prophet ﷺ, and parents receive monthly progress reports. See also stories of the Prophets for kids.
Frequently asked questions
At what age should I start teaching manners?
From the very beginning. Toddlers can learn Bismillah and salam; older children can learn more each year.
What if my child forgets?
That is normal. Gentle reminders and a good example at home make habits stick over time.
How much do classes cost?
Classes cost $5 per 30 minutes, families get 10% off, and the first class is free. See our pricing page.
